The risk we normalize
There was a time when every slow driver felt personal.
A car lingering in the left lane, a hesitant merge or someone braking early in bad weather once felt like an intentional obstruction placed directly in the way of wherever I was going. The irritation arrived quickly and loudly, while the frustration lingered long after the moment had passed. At the time, it felt justified, earned and like everyone else was the problem.
Only later did it become evident how exaggerated that reaction truly was. Maturity seldom announces itself; it doesn’t come with a single defining moment or a sudden perspective shift. Growth usually occurs gradually and quietly. One day, the same situation arises, but the reaction is calmer, less intense, and less urgent. That was the realization – not that road rage disappeared overnight, but that it loosened its grip without drawing attention to itself.
Some of this change probably occurs with age, some from parenthood and some from experiencing how quickly…